How to Practice

This category gathers excerpts that give practical guidance on how to proceed in meditation — sitting, walking, and daily life — including what to do, how to adjust, and how to work skillfully with experience.


THE EXCERPTS



051 ‣ When the Mind Is Too Tired to Maintain Mindfulness During Meditation (232) 052 ‣ How to Be Aware of Something We’re Not Skilled in Like Email Correspondence (235) 053 ‣ When the Mind Is Quiet, Notice the Quiet State of Mind (239) 054 ‣ Samatha Has Its Place in the Practice When Done Correctly (242) 055 ‣ How to Be Interested in the Meditation Object? (244) 056 ‣ Don’t Try to Change Anything, But Watch and Learn (251) 057 ‣ How to Be Aware When at Work and Having to Solve Problems (254) 058 ‣ We’re Interested in the Thinking Mind, Not the Thinking (268) 059 ‣ If You Don’t Know Your Mind, There Is No Way It Can Rest (270) 060 ‣ Reminder: ‘What Is the Mind Aware of?’ (272) 061 ‣ How to Observe Wandering Mind Without Focusing (274) 062 ‣ Meditation and Life Must Be Together (275) 063 ‣ Meditate for Wisdom, Not for Happiness (279) 064 ‣ Check Attitude First, Don’t Be Too Hasty to Meditate (287) 065 ‣ Check Attitude Otherwise Judgments Cause More Judgments (288) 066 ‣ Defilement Wants to Know What’s Outside; Wisdom Wants to Know What’s Inside (307) 067 ‣ Meditation Is Not Confined to Certain Time; Meditation Is for Life (309) 068 ‣ The Need to Know How Defilement Works (317) 069 ‣ How to Stay at the Mind Door (331) 070 ‣ Understanding More About Vedana (333) 071 ‣ Sleeping Problem During Retreats (336) 072 ‣ Walking Meditation: Let the Object Be a Natural Process (338) 073 ‣ Yogi Asking About Being Disturbed by Ghosts (347) 074 ‣ How to Handle the Negative Mind (348) 075 ‣ Sayadaw’s Approach to Metta Practice (350)


076 ‣ When Defilements Are Strong, Be Aware of Feelings or Body Sensations (351) 077 ‣ Pay Attention to the Way – How to Practice (353) 078 ‣ Right Attitude Gently Watches the Complete Picture (356) 079 ‣ Yogi Asking How to Deal with Unpleasant Feelings (359) 080 ‣ Recognize the Wisdom That Is Already Working (361) 081 ‣ Understand How the Mind Creates Concept (363) 082 ‣ Learn How to Be Aware in a Relaxed Way (372) 083 ‣ Awareness Has to Be Consistent for Wisdom to Arise (374) 084 ‣ Questioning to Be Interested in the Present Moment (375) 085 ‣ Defilement and Awareness See-Saw (378) 086 ‣ Sense of ‘Disappearance’ Caused by Imbalanced 5 Indriyas (379) 087 ‣ Advice for the Depressed – Easefully Aware Is Enough (380) 088 ‣ When the Mind Changes, the View Changes Too (383) 089 ‣ Training the Mind to Be Aware of Thoughts by Anchoring on Feelings (386) 090 ‣ Emotions Arise Because of Wrong Thought About the Memories (390) 091 ‣ The Nature of Lobha (391) 092 ‣ Chronic Tension and Anxiety Whenever Meditating (395) 093 ‣ How to Begin Meditating (406) 094 ‣ Right View Has to Be Recalled Because Wrong View Is the Default State (418) 095 ‣ Learning How to Watch an Experience with Equanimity (419) 096 ‣ Anger Towards the Sickness Causes the Mind to Resist Pain (425) 097 ‣ Sayadaw Relates His Own Experience with Natural Awareness (428) 098 ‣ How to Learn to Watch Thoughts Without Forcing (429) 099 ‣ 3 Reasons to Be Interested in Awareness (430) 100 ‣ Awareness of One Object or Multiple Objects? (435)


101 ‣ Advice for Beginners Who Cannot Notice Reactions (444) 102 ‣ Be Patient When Attending to Craving (456) 103 ‣ How to Handle Sleepiness During Sitting (463) 104 ‣ Knowing What Is Happening in the Mind Is Awareness (467) 105 ‣ When Awareness Gains Momentum, It Is Present Without Even Trying (472) 106 ‣ When We Learn to Watch Realities Instead of Concepts, There’s Less Suffering (473) 107 ‣ Eating Meditation at Home (476) 108 ‣ Don’t Try to Fix Defilements – Just Do the 3 Yogi’s Jobs (478) 109 ‣ We Watch the Defilement to Learn, Not to Stop It (479) 110 ‣ Try to Be Aware Even When We Follow the Defilement (489) 111 ‣ Checking the Mind Quality Through Feelings (492) 112 ‣ Maintaining Awareness While Anchoring in the Breath (493) 113 ‣ What Does Nature Mean (500) 114 ‣ Be Aware Too When the Mind Is Enjoying, Not Only When the Mind Suffers (501) 115 ‣ Wisdom Arises Consistently When Awareness Has Momentum (505) 116 ‣ Understanding How to Relax (509) 117 ‣ Acceptance Changes the Quality of Mind – It Is Active, Not Passive (512) 118 ‣ The Wise Way to Make Adhitthana (Determination) (520) 119 ‣ When Emotions Increase Because of Wrong Thought (521) 120 ‣ Deciding from Wisdom or Deciding from Defilement (522) 121 ‣ Learning to Overcome Depression the Wisdom Way (523) 122 ‣ Recognize That Negative Thoughts Are Results of the Deluded Mind (525) 123 ‣ The Skill of Watching Emotions (542) 124 ‣ When Cannot Sleep, Make It an Opportunity to Be Mindful (545) 125 ‣ The Mind Suffers When Wrong Thoughts Happen (553)


126 ‣ The Right Effort to Consistently Maintain Gentle Awareness (557) 127 ‣ The Value of the Practice Is in the Awareness, Not in the Pleasant Experiences (561) 128 ‣ The Two Ways of Cultivating Awareness (563) 129 ‣ Metta: If You Don’t Have Any in Your Pocket, You Can’t Give (569) 130 ‣ To Keep Our Mind Sharp as We Age, We Need to Practice Now (594) 131 ‣ How Is the Mind Observing Right Now? (599) 132 ‣ We Must Use Our Wisdom So That It Can Become Stronger (603) 133 ‣ Simply Be Aware Until Wisdom Arises (604) 134 ‣ The Practice of Awareness Is Not Through Deliberate Thinking (612) 135 ‣ The Foundation of the Practice Is Continuity of Awareness (614) 136 ‣ Practise Walking So Awareness Becomes Habitual Whenever We Walk (617) 137 ‣ Never Say Die When It’s Hard to Practice Post-Retreat (623) 138 ‣ Why We’re Attached to Our Homes (626) 139 ‣ Switch to a Neutral Object Only If You Can't Watch the Defilement (639) 140 ‣ Persist in Being Aware Despite Adverse Conditions (651) 141 ‣ When Eating Notice Which Sense Doors Are Working (653) 142 ‣ Learn How to Use Primary and Secondary Objects (658) 143 ‣ Don’t Try to Change the Experience; Observe the Natural Reaction (666) 144 ‣ Checking If the Mind Knows How to Practice (668) 145 ‣ Learn How the Mind Thinks, Knows and Feels (669) 146 ‣ You Need to Guide Your Mind Towards the Practice in Daily Life (682) 147 ‣ We Need to Understand the Mind to Live Peacefully (683) 148 ‣ At Home, Everything Belongs to You (686) 149 ‣ We Meditate to Understand the Mind, Not to Get Rid of a Problem (696) 150 ‣ When Defilement Subsides, That Is the Time to Watch and Learn (704)


151 ‣ Dynamic Samadhi Is More Powerful Than Static Samadhi (710) 152 ‣ People Take Care of Their Bodies, but Not Their Mind (715) 153 ‣ To Sit or Not to Sit in Daily Life (718) 154 ‣ Sitting Posture Is Over, but Meditation Is Not Over (719) 155 ‣ Anxious That the Practice Falls Short of the Ideal (722) 156 ‣ Check That the Right Idea Is Driving the Awareness (725) 157 ‣ Notice How Much Energy the Mind Uses to Be Aware (733) 158 ‣ Rounding Up the Practice (747) 159 ‣ Checking the Relationship Between the Mind and Object Is Investigation (750) 160 ‣ Learning to Handle Emotions in Daily Life (751) 161 ‣ Knowing How to Use Right Thinking and Effort to Be Mindful (764) 162 ‣ How Sayadaw Used Feelings as the Main Object in Lay Life (771) 163 ‣ Understanding the Cause and Effect Process (780) 164 ‣ Don’t Be Fixated in Ideas of Practice; Discover for Ourselves What Works (782) 165 ‣ Deep Concentration Without Understanding Is Dangerous (788) 166 ‣ No Need to Expect Total Samadhi; Only Awareness Needs to Be Stable (789) 167 ‣ How to Be Aware of Expectations (795) 168 ‣ How to Keep Observing When There Is Calmness (796) 169 ‣ Recognize and Acknowledge the Wrong Attitude (801) 170 ‣ How to Investigate When Mindfulness Is Stable (803) 171 ‣ Do Not Push When Unsure of How to Practice (819) 172 ‣ How to Discern Between Disenchantment and Depression (821) 173 ‣ Question What Is Physical and What Is Mental (823) 174 ‣ What to Do When the Mind Gets Bored (829) 175 ‣ When Wrong Attitude Persists, Stop Practicing and Relax the Mind First (834)






276 ‣ Handling Severe Pain (1512) 277 ‣ Is It Wrong to Focus When We Meditate? (1517) 278 ‣ Awareness Is Not to Fix Anything (1520) 279 ‣ Notice the Skillful Part of the Mind That Knows How to Do the Yogi Job (1532) 280 ‣ Working with Recurring Negative Thoughts (1546) 281 ‣ Discerning Unhelpful Contemplation (1548) 282 ‣ When We Discern Between Awareness and the Object, Stay with Awareness (1550) 283 ‣ What Right Idea to Have When We Watch a Defilement (1551) 284 ‣ Practicing Walking Meditation (1561) 285 ‣ We Train to Be Aware in the Meditation Centre (1565) 286 ‣ When the Mind Is Calm, We Watch the Awareness and Not the Calmness (1567) 287 ‣ How to Attend When Pain Arises (1569) 288 ‣ The Middle Way When We Meditate (1588) 289 ‣ Try to Be Aware Instead of Thinking When Facing Pain (1595) 290 ‣ What to Do with Worry and Anxiety (1624) 291 ‣ Prioritize the Awareness When We Practice (1628) 292 ‣ How to Prepare Facing Serious Illnesses (1655) 293 ‣ If the Defilement Increases When We Watch It, It Is Not the Right Object (1681) 294 ‣ How Do I Develop the Wisdom for Death? (1685) 295 ‣ When Calm Leads to Drowsiness (1690) 296 ‣ Effort Can Be Too Much, but Not Awareness (1699) 297 ‣ We Should Practice Being Present (1706) 298 ‣ The Process of Checking Our Attitude (1707) 299 ‣ Consistent Awareness Is the Condition for the Arising of Wisdom (1708) 300 ‣ Practice to Face Suffering and Not Hope to Reduce It (1725) 301 ‣ Think of This Right Idea When Stray Thoughts Arise (1731) 302 ‣ Learn to Be Aware Relaxingly (1738) 303 ‣ Fear Arose from Your Thoughts (1752)


THE DISCUSSIONS

001 ‣ Five Sense Objects and Five Strands of Sensual Pleasure (1) 002 ‣ When the Mind Is Ready, Wisdom Will Work by Itself (4) 003 ‣ Remindfulness (6) 004 ‣ Way of Understanding Cause and Effect Through Awareness + Wisdom Practice (8) 005 ‣ The Deeper You Understand Anger, the Less It Overwhelms You (9) 006 ‣ Stability of Mind – The Role of Non-Self (Anatta) Wisdom (10) 007 ‣ Know Why the Mind Is Resisting Instead of Trying to Accept (12) 008 ‣ Can Meditation Cure Diseases? (13) 009 ‣ A Calm Mind in Comfort Is Not Yet Proven (18) 010 ‣ When Ideas Change, Habitual Patterns Change Too (20) 011 ‣ Right Effort vs Wrong Effort (26) 012 ‣ Distressed Before Death: A Reflection on Cancer (27) 013 ‣ Awareness + Wisdom in Action: The Mind of a Meditator at Work (28) 014 ‣ There Is No Problem, Only Solution (31) 015 ‣ Boredom (33) 016 ‣ Less Wanting, Less Dissatisfaction, Less Thinking (34) 017 ‣ Adjust and Apply as Conditions Require (35) 108 ‣ Are You Sure You Are Aware? (36) 019 ‣ The Reason Why the Body Shakes During Sitting and How to Resolve This (37) 020 ‣ Right View in Meditation: Recognizing Images as Mental Processes (38) 021 ‣ The Broad View: Consistently Be at the Knowing-Mind Side (39) 022 ‣ Be More Aware When You Are Alone (40) 023 ‣ Meditation Is Not Yet Over Just Because the Defilement Has Disappeared (42) 024 ‣ Why Meditation Feels Tiring (and How to Practise Wisely) (43) 025 ‣ From Cushion to Daily Life: Establishing Mindfulness Every Time (44) 026 ‣ Don’t Be Afraid of Being Wrong (46) 027 ‣ How to Make the Best Use of Arising Defilements (Unwholesome Thoughts) (50) 028 ‣ Defilements Don’t Arise Due to Non-Encounter, Not Due to Practice (52) 029 ‣ First, Change the Direction Toward the Dhamma Mind (54) 030 ‣ Don’t Observe as “My Mind” or “His Mind”, See Mind as Just Mind (55) 031 ‣ Without Mindfulness There’s No Wisdom; Without Wisdom Work Is Tiring (57) 032 ‣ Learning to Understand Pain Before Suffering Becomes Inevitable (58)